Porn is a touchy topic in the sex life of any relationship. It’s such a taboo that couples who allow each other to watch porn in their private time are considered open-minded. And while almost all couples try watching porn together to spice things up, they end up just playing it in the background while they have sex, without drawing any benefits from it. That’s because men don’t know how to watch porn with a woman in a way that she will enjoy it. And if you’re a man who wants to elevate the naughty game, you should read this guide on how to watch porn with your lady.
One of the first mistakes that men make when they start watching porn with their lady is searching for the kinks that they like. And in case you don’t know, men and women like different things. In fact, some of the kinks men like are a bit of a turn-off for women. Some women don’t get turned on when they watch another woman sucking dick. Some girls aren’t into degradation porn. And I don’t know many women who are into MILFs or stepmom porn.
However, there are some dirty things girls like that you might also enjoy. First of all, many of them are into old vs young. Not old old, but a daddy banging a sexy young 18+ teen will always make them wet. When it comes to threesomes, they like the MMF ones. And they also like gangbangs. However, what never fails when it comes to watching porn with a lady is to dive into lesbian porn. All women watch lesbian porn. But just to be safe, let her choose the genre and the kinks. At least at first, until you both get crazy horny.
When it comes to enjoying porn with your lady, especially if it is the first time, pushing hardcore videos down her throat might not work as well as you might think. That is why you should maybe try looking at some porn pics at first. Just like in the previous paragraph, you should know that you might not have the same kink habits. So let her choose the genre at first. Or better, get on a gallery porn site and hit the random button until you find a pornpic you both like. And then dive deeper into something you both agree on.
A very important thing that you should keep in mind when enjoying porn with your lady is not to make her feel like you lust for other women. She might be a bit insecure about her body or about your preferences in women. However, that can easily be fixed if you focus on searching for content that features women who look like her. If your lady is Asian, search for Asian porn. If she’s a redhead, search for gingers in sex movies. And if she has small boobies, try not to make her compare herself with the hotties in the movies you’re watching. She’ll get more comfortable with enjoying porn featuring women who look nothing like her, who are bustier and younger. But at first, you should play it safe and let her get used to the idea.
Once you agree on a category or on a certain movie, the thing you should do is sit side by side and masturbate together. Let her enjoy herself. Don’t try to help her. She can help herself. Allow her to have the first orgasm while you edge yourself. Try not to cum and let her play with herself as much as she wants until she begs you to fuck her.
Pro tip: get her a magic wand or another type of clitoral vibrator. She’ll enjoy watching porn with you better if she doesn’t have to finger herself in order to cum.
Let Your Lady Choose First
One of the first mistakes that men make when they start watching porn with their lady is searching for the kinks that they like. And in case you don’t know, men and women like different things. In fact, some of the kinks men like are a bit of a turn-off for women. Some women don’t get turned on when they watch another woman sucking dick. Some girls aren’t into degradation porn. And I don’t know many women who are into MILFs or stepmom porn.
However, there are some dirty things girls like that you might also enjoy. First of all, many of them are into old vs young. Not old old, but a daddy banging a sexy young 18+ teen will always make them wet. When it comes to threesomes, they like the MMF ones. And they also like gangbangs. However, what never fails when it comes to watching porn with a lady is to dive into lesbian porn. All women watch lesbian porn. But just to be safe, let her choose the genre and the kinks. At least at first, until you both get crazy horny.
Don’t Underestimate The Power Of Porn Pics
When it comes to enjoying porn with your lady, especially if it is the first time, pushing hardcore videos down her throat might not work as well as you might think. That is why you should maybe try looking at some porn pics at first. Just like in the previous paragraph, you should know that you might not have the same kink habits. So let her choose the genre at first. Or better, get on a gallery porn site and hit the random button until you find a pornpic you both like. And then dive deeper into something you both agree on.
Search For Pornstars Who Look Like Her
A very important thing that you should keep in mind when enjoying porn with your lady is not to make her feel like you lust for other women. She might be a bit insecure about her body or about your preferences in women. However, that can easily be fixed if you focus on searching for content that features women who look like her. If your lady is Asian, search for Asian porn. If she’s a redhead, search for gingers in sex movies. And if she has small boobies, try not to make her compare herself with the hotties in the movies you’re watching. She’ll get more comfortable with enjoying porn featuring women who look nothing like her, who are bustier and younger. But at first, you should play it safe and let her get used to the idea.
What To Do When You Find Porn You Both Enjoy
Once you agree on a category or on a certain movie, the thing you should do is sit side by side and masturbate together. Let her enjoy herself. Don’t try to help her. She can help herself. Allow her to have the first orgasm while you edge yourself. Try not to cum and let her play with herself as much as she wants until she begs you to fuck her.
Pro tip: get her a magic wand or another type of clitoral vibrator. She’ll enjoy watching porn with you better if she doesn’t have to finger herself in order to cum.